You're Invested
in His Happiness
We're not just talking about rooting for his fave football team on Sunday. You're really in love when you're willing to put his happiness above your own, like skipping a concert that you really wanted to see to stay home and help him get over a bad day
You Want Him to Branch Out
That means you want him to find his own challenges and grow as a person. If you just want him to stay the same and not have any cool adventures (that might not involve you), it's not love
You're Cool With
You're Cool With
Your Differences
Sure, if he's a horrible dresser or could use some kissing tips, obviously you'll want to tweak that. But if you're okay knowing that he's obsessed with Jay-Z's music and you're more indie, or that you have different political views and can look beyond it, that's love.
You Can Admit
You Can Admit
Your Shortcomings...
We know, we know—it sucks to acknowledge that you have a weak area or two. But if you can admit them to your guy and actually want to work on them (by starting to be on time for things, picking your battles, etc.), you're clearly invested in a future with him.
…And Can Live With His
Everybody has less than desirable qualities. You're definitely in love if you can accept that he'll be grumpy after his team loses a game or know that he sometimes loses his cool over minor stuff (provided he's willing to work on it).
